I don't get when couples talk about "Our song!"?

What does it mean when couples have a "song"? Did they like have sex during it the first time? i dont get

I don't get when couples talk about "Our song!"?
Usually it is a song that was popular when the couple met or that has a special significance for the couple. The song maybe brings back a happy memory for them. Maybe it was the song they played at their wedding for the first dance.





It dates back to when ballroom and slow dancing were popular. Back when people actually held one another in their arms on the dance floor. People fell in love to music back then and falling in love evokes powerful memories.
Reply:It's typically a song that the couple heard on their first date, or one of their first or important meetings. It could be a song playing the first time that they consummated their relationship, but it could also be a song that they feel characterizes their relationship.
Reply:Usually a song heard/playing during a special moment. Could be a first date/meeting, during sex, a special event, a special occasion, can be both have the same favorite song. Very individual.
Reply:Its the song that both of them agreed on to be their song. You know one of the songs that played when ever they got together.
Reply:it means that is your first song with your girlfriend
Reply:When you dance close to someone you really care about to a romantic song it will become your song. When you grow up you will know.
Reply:get a girlfriend.


then you'll know.
Reply:They are just referring to it like that because it might be both their favourite song or somethig that relates to their relatinship. Quite often it would be that the ong was played when they first met or a date just something memorable
Reply:Usually a song that has a meaning for them. Could be first time they had sex or the first time they kissed or they even heard it on their first date. Whatever they determine it to be.


It could even be that the lyrics have meaning for them as a couple.
Reply:well...i suppose they could have had sex during it the first time....lol....but usually it's because maybe they were out on a date and it came on and they both liked it, or they danced together to it, or maybe it happened to come on a few times when they were together and so it just became "their song" or else they both thought it explained the way they feel about each other. i'm not saying that these are nessesarily the circumstances under which they decide it's their song. but...in other words the song somehow holds sentimental value to them.


i'm not sure how else to explain....
Reply:A couple's song is when something significant happened while that song is playing. It could also be a song that symbolizes their relationship.
Reply:It is a song they both understand - A song that sums up their relationship...
Reply:It's their first song they danced to together.
Reply:I've always wondered that, too. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we don't have "a song". Sure, many songs make me think of him, but there isn't just ONE.





I do, however, know many couples (who've usually lasted the typical high school relationship length of a month) that consider their songs to be the ones they:


-first danced to


-kissed to (if applicable)


-agreed upon


-felt strong ties to


-one person claimed it haha





(I did know a couple who had a song based on the first time they had sex with each other...)
Reply:Well usually couples will claim a special song during the first of their relationships as that will be something that "bonded" them together. Hard to explain but you will recognize it when it happens to you.
Reply:It could be a song they danced to the first time, or a song they often heard on the radio when they were dating.





Or it could be a song that was playing when they had sex for the first time.......LOL!





In any event, it's a song that brings back special feelings for that couple.
Reply:Most likely, or they kissed for the first time cause the song made them horny or turned on. It tells the story of their relationship.